To remember
Accepting jealousy.
“Humans are emotional animals. We are bound to get both positive and negative emotions.
It is important to let them flow through us rather than bottling up inside or trying to get rid of it. The only way to get rid of jealousy is to feel it. Listen to it. All those words and images coming out of the situation is the talk of your jealous body . You are not connected to it or identifying with it. We are humans and this is our ego self disguised as jealous body that do the talking. The moment we become aware of jealous body is the moment we dissociate with it !!
We become jealous free!”"Normally, we compare every part of us to the one best part of everyone "And this is completely illogical. Noone knows all 360° about someone. Even our parents don't know us completely. Everyone has their own amount of strengths and weakness. Because we see only the best part of others doesn't make us any lesser than them.
We also need to understand that there is always someone who is going to beat us in some way.
The solution here is not to be better than someone but to become our best self where we no longer feel the need to feel jealous as we think we are already cool.
Everyone is struggling with life, even Ronaldo, even those you think have everything, that's the nature of man. So embrace struggle, don't ever let it depress you, and struggle hard until the day your heart stops beating.
So, don't be hard on yourself. Noone is perfect.
Everyone has their flaws. Accept this part of you. It is okay!
You are loved. You are enough. You are worthy.
Self Confidence
" I don't take good pictures 'cause I have the kind of beauty that moves."-Ani DiFranco.
Reminders
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The you from five years ago would be so freaking proud of the you today.”“One thing l've learned with age is realizing that I am who I am, if people don't like that, then that's on them. All I can do is keep focusing on becoming a better person. Life is too short to focus on the false sense of urgency everyone seems to have. Everything will work out, and if it doesn't, then it probably will work out in a way I don't completely understand yet and that's ok.”
Don't be afraid to start over again. This time you're not starting from scratch, you're starting from experience.
"Wear the damn dress, do your makeup however you want, take yourself on a date, always dress up because one day, you'll be 75 and wished you lived for yourself and the moment"
Use the nice plates. Wear the nice jewelry.
If you lose it or break it, you'll be glad you at least wore it.
"Man, sometimes it takes a long time to sound like yourself." —Miles Davis- Don't take criticism from someone you wouldn't take advice from
- Don't set yourself on fire to keep other people warm
- Silence is often misunderstood but never misquoted
“Accept the things you cannot change for the beauty they still possess.”
“In case you forgot, you're still young and you're not supposed to have your whole life figured out yet.”
Don't stress. Everything will work out.Fashion is how it makes you feel.
“Whatever grows together goes together.”
“And there will come a day when you suddenly go, oh. That's why. That's why it was worth living and sticking around. I understand.”
life is just humiliating yourself over and over and learning to live with the inherent shame of being alive !! do what makes you happy !! it is impossible to live life without embarrassment, so why bother
“And then the moment passes, and you might forget again.But that's okay, because life is an abundance of such moments. They will come back”
you're allowed to get up one day and just decide to change who you are. dress differently, speak up more, laugh out loud even though you've never liked your laugh, say what you want to, say hey to people you wouldn't normally, get that confidence going. we don't have to stay the way people see us out of the fear that they won't like the us we want to be.
"Visions are worth fighting for. Why spend your life making someone else's dreams?"-Tim Burton
"I try not to get angry about anything because once you start hating one aspect of your life, you look around and think everything is fucked up. It's much more beneficial if you only take goodness out of everything."-Amy WinehouseDOUBT
KILLS MORE DREAMS
THAN
FAILURE
EVER WILL
“Pure Heroine exists because I had the tiniest inkling of what I've now come to see as one of my guiding principles: that each of us have a handful of songs inside us that are ours, and only ours, to sing. Your specific interests and upbringing and physiology and experiences exist only in you; you are sitting on a gold mine that no one can rob. Whatever that means to you, whatever that statement you were born to make is, I invite you to take a big breath and make it.”-lorde“You know what the best age is? The age you are day by day.”-IL SORPASSO,1962